This amazing woman just dropped her CD titled “Be in Want.” Be sure to follow the links to her official site for details on buying her new cd.  It’s easy to support plus size artists with such raw natural talent as is evident in Meghan after less than 5 years in music. In another 5 years she’ll be legendary! (note: PLEEEEASE support Indie artists of all sizes. Thank you.)

In addition to being a self-taught guitarist and singer-songwriter, she is also the founder Project Lifesize, a collaboration channel discussing topics such as eating disorders and fat acceptance. Project Lifesize also has a community site where like minded people can discuss these topics and connect for support and encouragement. I just joined and I highly recommend it.

Check out Meghan’s official website for more information and don’t forget to subscribe to her youtube channel for more of her original music and some really great cover tunes too.

Booking/Media: meghantonjesmusic@gmail.com
General: megsietee@gmail.com

That has been a favorite quote of mine for years now as I truly believe that every person is indeed lovable and valuable. But for years I’ve overheard condemnation issued to my overweight friends (often by seemingly concerned family members and “friends.”) in hopes their fear of being alone will motivate them to change their bodies into sleek, fit love machines. >insert eyeroll here< There are few things I can think of that would be more counterproductive to someone already struggling with body image woes and I know way too many women (and men) who still wrestle with the voices of family members in their heads decades after hearing such words. When a person continually hears that no one will want them, it’s even hard for someone who genuinely loves them to convince them otherwise.

For the longest time I didn’t believe that anyone would love me just the way I am, and because I held firm to that belief, I tolerated and settled for many things in relationships I wouldn’t have if I had a clue of how worthy I was of being loved for all that I am. This is why it’s so very important to me to write and share my experience with others. I completely understand the need for healing in this area as it effects more than just romantic relationships, but it can also rob individuals of their joy in every area including friendships, job performance, mental health, and more.

At the time I met my husband, and yes we are an online dating success story, I had already begun healing my self esteem issues and was growing in my confidence in my abilities. I was already reevaluating my value as a person and working on letting go of my anger and resentment…issuing pardons to those who hurt me in the past with both words and deeds. I was on the right path in other words and ripe and ready for love. However, he and I didn’t begin our journey together looking to date. Instead we approached the situation as potential friends getting to know each other. In all the relationships I’ve had, this was a new concept for me. Could it be that the old standard for dating just doesn’t work in finding a lifelong mate? Anyway, as we focused on getting to know each other and accepting each other “as is,” we simply grew closer and closer and reached the point where we knew we had to meet in person.

The moment I saw his face smiling back at me, I knew that my life would never be the same! Not only did he not care about my size, but he loved me and my heart most of all and I really don’t think it mattered what kind of shell I came in. Regardless of what you’ve been told, someone will see the true wonder that is you and love you for it, the key, I think, is working on your own feelings and getting help to heal the old wounds and relearn a new way of seeing yourself BEFORE looking for love.

In the weeks to come I will be launching a new podcast that deals specifically with the issues of body image and building better self esteem. I invite you to bookmark this page and check back often for more information.

In the meantime, please visit and participate in the Fat Admirers project found here http://www.fat-admirers.com/

Tune in tonight for plus model radio with Chenese Lewis and her special guests tonight at  http://www.blogtalkradio.com/plusmodelradio as she and her guests talk about the plus modeling industry. This is a great show to catch if you are a plus modeling hopeful.

This Dylan cover is no different…enjoy!

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http://www.youtube.com/user/rachaelpachel

Dr. Peggy Elam shares what she calls “Fat & Happy Music” during her shows that are size postive in nature and also shares articles, guest interviews, and insights about all things size and body related. Dr. Elam is also involved in writing on the body-positive “Love Your Body Blog“ and speaks with such genuine warmth and positivity that I have no doubt anyone can benefit from tuning in and hearing her show.

Dr. Elam has made tuning in simple. You will find the mp3 recording of each show posted with the show description. Tune in and enjoy, Dr. Elam has many good things to share with you!

You can find her here http://www.healthateverysize.info/

PhatGirlzIndy along with Big Daddy’s Place Presents:
Slippery When Wet End of Summer Bash!!!

When: September 27th, 2008

Where: Grand View Hotel (Soon to be the Ramada Inn)
530 East Thompson Road (at the Corner of US 31 and Thompson Rd)
Indianapolis, Indiana
(317) 787-8341
Room Rates $50.00 plus tax!!!
(Must Mention PHAT)
All rooms near the indoor pool and hot tub!

Your $10.00 cover, will consist of:
*Pool & Hot tub party from 1-6pm BYOB no glass in pool or hot tub area
*Club Party in the Hotel Lounge 9pm-close No drinks in or out of the bar! !! Dress to Impress
*Late Night Pool Party (providing we book all 32 rooms) 1am-3am

WE ARE VERY EXCITED!!  We will be inviting, many other groups to join us that day and evening!!!!

THIS IS NOT THE PARTY TO MISS OUT ON!
Questions??? Contact us at
Lee Lee at SultryandBlond@ aol.com
Big Daddy (Jeff) at BigDaddy46234@ yahoo.com

We have also booked the hotel for New Years Eve.Details to follow soon!!! Make your reservations early!!

The fine print and just a few simple rules!! Please be considerate of other guests staying at the hotel.  You must clean up after yourself at the pool party. Respect is a must.!!The hotel does have security and anyone caught breaking the law or Hotel Rules will be asked to leave immediately. PhatgirlzIndy or Big Daddy’s Place will not be liable or responsible for your actions. Otherwise, its going to be Indy’s best party yet!!!  With many more to come!!!

See you there!!
Lee Lee & Jeff!
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Big_Daddys_Place_Indy_Plus_Size_Party/

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/PhatGirlzIndy

YOU’RE INVITED TO JOIN US FOR THE SHOW / Don’t forget to Check out the New Issue of LargeInCharge Magazine

THIS FRIDAY - Fat Parents - Does fat stop you from being a good Parent? Why do people believe that fat hinders their parenting skills. Do you believe that if you lose weight you will become a better parent. Do you think your children are suffering because of your weight? Are there any happy big parents out there?

Also, we had planned to officially launch SPTV the weekend of the Bygies with our live broadcast of the awards and fashion shows. We have decided to push up our launch date instead to October 4th, 2008 as we will be covering a tri-state BBW event in IN, September 27th and will be gathering interviews and party footage to air. You’re welcome to join us there for a great time and celebration!
PhatGirlzIndy along with Big Daddy’s Place End of Summer Bash!!!

When: September 27th, 2008 Where: Grand View Hotel (Soon to be the Ramada Inn)
520 East Thompson Road
(located at: the Corner of US 31 and Thompson Road)
Indianapolis, Indiana
Room Rates $50.00 plus tax!!!
(Must Mention the code “PHAT” to get the discount rate )
All near the indoor pool and hot tub!
You can start booking as early as Weds afternoon!!!

Your $10.00 cover, will consist of:

Pool & Hot tub party from 1-6pm
BYOB no glass in pool or hot tub area

Dance Party in the Hotel Lounge
9pm-close
No drinks in or out of the bar! !!

Late Night Pool Party
1am-3am